Interpersonal Communication

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Friday, February 13, 2009

SALANGAI......











What is salangai? Salangai is something like anklet but in a bigger version where it is wear by the people who is dancing indian classical dance (bharatanatyam). There is 2 types of salangai,cloth and leather made. The salangai was worn by Lord Shiva during his recarnation to the earth. Where he dance the Rudra Thandavem in Sithirabam,India.



But thosedays people will wear this salangai for reduce tiredness because they use to walk very far.Which means thosedays there is no vehicle and transport so they normally walk all the way to reach their destiny.Therefore by using salangai,there is a rythm and sound when you move your legs so this makes them not to feel the tiredness so much hearing to the bytes. Even nowdays their use salangai for thaipusam where people who take up kavadi thir will wear salangai so they dont feel that much tired.


Salangai pooja is usually done when one has learnt Bharatanatyam for a few years and attained a good handle on talam. One is not allowed to wear their Salangai and perform until after the salangai pooja. On a Vijaya Dasami day, the family and friends get together at a temple, where pooja is done for the new salangai and the guru offers the same to the students.Then, the students wear their salangai for the first time and present a mini recital.


For reference, the nadais in dance are counted like so:
Chathushram (4)Thakadhimi Thakajhanu
Thishram (3)Thakita Thakita
Mishram (4+3)Thakadhimi Thakita
Khandam (5)Thaka Thakita
Sankeernam (4+5)Thakadhimi Thaka Thakita


Thursday, February 12, 2009

THAIPUSAM IN PENANG 2009






































Hindu devotees in Malaysia celebrated Thaipusam to mark the birth of Lord Murugan by going to several temples in the country, one of it is Penang Thanimalai Temple which I went there to celebrate this years Thaipusam.This event took 3 days which wll be on the 7,8 and FEB 2008.




7 FEB 2009




On the 7th that is called CHETTIPUSAM which means the CHETTIAR caste will celebrate on these day. But those days only the chetty will celebrate but now this have change everyone can celebrate. This night also the chairot from Thainimalai Murugan temple will bring Lord Murugan down the hill to the town. This is because Lord Murugan will come to the town to visit all the devotees and to grant their wishes. The devotees also will take up Kavadi on this night.







What is Kavadi? "Kavadi" appears to be a word of Tamil origin - a combination of the words 'kavi' and 'adi'. 'Kavi' means 'saffron' implying asceticism and 'adi' means 'foot' signifying pilgrimage. Taken together the significance of the word is very clear. The devotee takes a vow to live the life of an ascetic for a particular period and then, as the culmination, travels to the temple of Muruga by foot, bearing that symbol of purity - the "Kavadi."There are different kinds of "Kavadi" of which the most prevalent are " Annakkavadi", and "Palkavadi". "Annakkavadi" entails the devotee going barefoot from house to house, begging for food, not with the motive of satisfying his own hunger, but as offering to the Lord and his devotees. This custom helps in inculcating humility in the devotee who has to beg for food, whatever his social standing may be. In "Palkavadi" the devotee begs for milk, which is ultimately offered to the Lord and His devotees. There are several variations in the idea, but the basic objective is to destroy the devotees's ego, so that he comes nearer to Divinity.



On this night devotees is less compare to the day of thaipusam. Along the road to the temple we can see thaneerpanthal which means devotees put up tents and gives away free food and drinks for the crowd.The people who set up the thaneer panthal also start work well before Thaipusam. The design, the structure and the decorations are all drawn well before hand and the panthals are in many cases superb engineering feats.A statue of a deity takes centrestage in all thaneer panthal. The colourful lights make for brilliant panthals at night and add to the gaiety, not to mention the huge loudspeakers and the deafening music.





8 FEB 2009



This on the day of Thaipusam. Where the population people on this day is higher compare to the previous day. More kavadis and devotees with piercing around their bodies.



A man with pircings and skewers through his face enters a trance during the Thaipusam festival.According to another legend Lord Shiva and Parvati were involved in a cosmic dance on the Thaipusam day. It is said that all the gods assembled to watch this cosmic dance.



Along the roads also we can see people selling all types of things such as Gods pictures, songs and sweets etc.All the devotees normally who is taking kavadi or palgodam will wear yellow colour dress or dhothi.



9 FEB 2009



Which the day where the chairots will go out again to the town. This when people will break coconuts along the roads. As many as they want to. Then Lord Muruga will be back to Chetti temple where he is belongs from,which means the Lord Muruga statue belongs to the Chetti people.






















































Monday, February 9, 2009

Lesson 2, 16 Jan 2009

COMMUNICATION DEVICES ( process)

sender- the person who sent the message
reciever- the person who got the message
ancode - ideas in the head or our thoughts
eg: you never come to class
just in mind never tell it out,running in the mind
the way we say it in a different way
tone differents and actions
email and telephone
decode - interprate it differently
eg: just tell her you look nice
but in the mind you look ugly
feedback- different perpestive

3 types of noises

EXTERNAL NOISE - from outside base
eg: bus,loud music
INTERNAL NOISE - inside our mind
eg: thinkingin the mind
SAMETHIC- words not suite to our action, verbal and actions opposites
eg: telling something funny very seriously

Types of feedbacks
POSITIVE - compliments
eg: your speech is nice
NEGATIVE - adjustment,criticize
eg: you should upgrade your speech
PERSON FOCUS MESSAGE- more to outfeed (not the content)
eg: you look nice
IMMEDIATE - feedback on the spot
DELAY - later,answer given take time
eg: assignments
LOW MONITORING - no thinking about it
answer fast
honest
HIGH MONITORING - take time to think
carefully construct
FEED FOWARD - giving some preview before getting feedback
eg: assignmnets giving proposal

PHITIC COMMUNICATION
open the channel of communication
eg: newly meet just say hi
talk for the sake

DISCLAIM MESSAGE
trying to defend self before start to message
before people jugde us
eg: I went to USA,but i am not boasting up

ALTERCAST
saying in the specific roles
eg: as a doctor I am not allowed to dance in the pub

DISCUSSION IN THE CLASS
relationship
types of relationship
share the experience of the one who is in a relationship